“To love someone is nothing, to be loved by someone is something, but t be loved by the one you love is everything.”- Bill Russell

But what if you are being cheated by the person you love and they also show back love to you. We all know that we can’t force someone to love back selflessly. But crying in a corner or fighting every night doesn’t lead you to the solution.

There has also been published a data that 50-60% married men and 45-50% of married women are engaged in extramarital relationships. No, I’m not trying to panic you with these data, in fact giving you alert signs to secure to love life before its too late. So, here we present some tricks to be sure on your intuitions on a cheating partner.


1. Monitoring a partner’s behavior

When you get that little hint of your spouse or lover is cheating on you, it’s time to discover the truth. It is one of the most effective and result-oriented ways to deal with an unfaithful partner. Keep eyes on them over every possible activity they do.

Note down times, places and dates and also the person involved in and his excuses. Cheating partners usually create a new story as an excuse when you question, so it’s better to record things. It’s critical to do so because they are damn smart. And when talking about smartness, don’t forget to observe their sleeping habits.

Also, let’s give them a surprise by visiting their workplace. Check the odometer regularly and record mileage and correlate with where your partner had been. Being their loyal partner, you can act smarter than them, right?

2. Check their cell phone


Okay, we don’t need to teach this one but still, it is a classic trick to list. Human beings are spending their most of the time with their phone. And we know your partner too is obsessed with it, so it time to be vigilant folks!

If your partner is taking more care of their phone, there is going a something lovey-dovey thing. You know when to smash over his/her phone, isn’t it? Check every folder; go through chat history, search history and emails.

Complete the things before they start to panic for phone cause if they got a hunch about yours, it’s going to be more tough game. Don’t lose temper, calm down. Screenshot their conversations and send it to your phone. And yes, don’t miss to check their recycle bin. If you found something worthy, it’s a show time honey.

3. Wall’s has ears too

Technology may give false reports to you but you can always believe your ears and eyes. Go with your precious organ this time. Since you are observing his other behavior from earlier, we guess that you have noticed some smoke. Now, it’s time to locate where that fire is from.

A cheating partner gets on late-night talks and goodnight kisses and rests when you are in cavernous sleep. Or they may stay longer at night with loads of work suddenly, those days are for being an owl, pretend you are in deep sleep but keep your ears wide awake. If they get out of bed for long, what else follow them you lazy laid!

Things will also come like this; spending more time on grooming, all of a sudden they ask for personal space and spend time alone. It these things is on ways, you need to practice next step to collect more evidence.


4. Check-ins and online reviews

Technology is a curse for your love life but it can be advantageous for protecting the love of your life as well. It has become easy for us to track our family, friends and the cheating partner too. So, now it’s your turn to be a location tracker pardon the Google for this time.

Chase the footprints of them very closely through online so you could where they check-in and with whom. Oh, and they might also leave reviews someplace for café, restaurant or hotel where they have spent their time. You can call on those locations for more information like with whom they were there and what name they have registered.

It’s genuine that they are more careful about these things but the next person with him/her may tag them in on check-ins. Thus, you need to be steadily following them online. Look, social media aren’t that worst if you know how to use it accurately.

5. Hidden cameras


The idea of a hidden camera is still a typical way to expose someone deeds. And why not your cheating partner this time? They have multiple uses hence if you caught while fitting this, you have lots of excuses to escape (wink).

You can get those worthy cameras from supermarket or order online. Choose the right place for placing the device. You know that it should be hidden from their sight but still place it from where the whole room can be captured. Keep the cameras where your partner prefers to stay most of the time including bedroom, living room and don’t forget washroom as well.

Get a professional help to install it when your spouse or lover is not at home. And watch the thing happening there when you are away from home. He/she might be on duty in front of your eyes. Placing cameras for checking someone might be unethical but remember “everything is fair in love and war”.

6. Spying software

The spying software is a real gem for catching your cheating partner red handed. There has been developing several cheating spouse apps in the world but some people are still unaware about that stuff. Don’t bother much; we have a solution to your problem.

There can be found various spying software where could be downloaded free or by paying. Those software helps to track the cell phones and computers of a person whom you want to stalk. They hack your partner’s gadgets getting all unrestricted and unnoticeable access to their Facebook, email, text messages and others.

It is strongly recommended for those who want to catch their cheating partner. And the perk of installing it is you can go through all little move of them and they will never realize the spying software operating in the background. It’s like 1 2 3 work done.


7. Perquisite of having joint accounts

Do you and your partner have a joint bank account? If yes, there is good news for you. You might not have thought about this but you can actually track he/she expenses and transactions. Oh gosh, being ‘Sugardaddy’ is going as a trend these days.

Also go through credit card details including shopping, hotels charges and so on. Note down all those data along with your phone bills. You have earned all single pennies with great struggle so don’t let anyone take that easily and not especially who are spoiling your love life.

Your cheating partner is being cheated by their new honey as well who are using them just for money. So, you can go through all those ludicrously posh transactions and expenses that will obviously help while confronting with your partner. Be real Sherlock Holmes, you can do it for the sake of your love!

8. Create a phony profile


One feels so bad when you realize that a person whom you love eternally and share the same bed have a double face. They cheat you and take your love for granted. But you don’t get weak with all those chaos instead catch them red hand and let them face your love.

One of the verified ways of catching the cheating partner is creating a fake profile that is appealing to them. You need to create a profile that is similar to his/her choices and interest like music band, movie, sports team and places. But don’t make it exactly like theirs because they might suspect you.

By creating phony accounts you can stalk on your partner and the person they are engaged with. You can also chat with them to know their habit of talking and flirting with strangers. And yes, fewer friends in your account might be suspicious so make many friends make it look legitimate.

9. Recording device

Are you getting suspicious of your partner's activities behind your back? Do they involve in more phone calls and other activities? Here is bonus point of their engaging in more phone calls. You can place a recording device in your home where your partner spends their most time.

It is obvious that they spend a large part of their time in a video call and voice chat. So, to get a dominant proof you can record their voice. Also, you can use those recordings while questioning him about their extra relationships. They will stand numb when you play it in the way of their ready-made excuses.

And what if your partner spends most of the time out of town? No worries, there is present for you, audio recording app. Choose one for you that would work in standby mode, and then install it on your partner’s phone. They can’t even suspect that app working in the background.


10. GPS device

Nothing is going to stop to catch your disloyal partner blatantly now. This stalker mode is going to be your life-saving thing. Select a little GPS device that could be secured on the car of your partner. Oh, what a relief!

Now, you can follow their every move and get to them on seedy motels with their trousers on their feet. GPS devices are boon for tracking the cheaters with the exact location. They will be amazed of you tracking skills and intelligence when you confront them red-handed.