I’d like to tell you about the fastest way to self-sabotage any relationship.

For the 80% of men who are socially inept, it starts with the first date and ends with getting laid. (Time to celebrate right?)

But what happens afterwards in the relationship?

An emotional path opens up and your mind starts to take over. Suddenly all your deep fears and insecurities are exposed; and as much as you would like them to go away, they don’t.

Here’s where these top best questions to ask a girl can help. Think of them as a shortcut towards getting to getting to know a girl better. Plus, they’ll make your dates far less boring and bring you closer.

Now, these aren’t your ordinary questions, these are thought provoking, personal questions. They will put both you and your date into a vulnerable position, and force you to go to an internal place and ask why? Instead of saying things to be more attractive, or perhaps fool yourself self into liking her more, it allows both of you to be authentic and real.

Just remember one thing: Why waste time when we have so little time on the planet to be us.

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Good Questions to Ask a Girl

1. What is something you have tried, but will never do again?

– This is an intriguing question that will get her thinking. This also allows you to know how wild or daring she really is. Perhaps the both of you have had the same experience and this will bring you closer together.

2. What quirky habit do you have?

– Quirky habits are something that we all have. This is something that will get her to open up to you and let down her guard. This is a great way to make her feel just a little more comfortable with you.

3. Who is your best friend?

– Best friends must like you if the relationship will ever have a chance of working out. By knowing who her best friend is, you will be able to make a good first impression and will be able to ask more questions about them. What are they like? How did they meet?

4. What is the one thing you did in your past you wish you could undo?

– Mistakes are very difficult to understand and admit. If she tells you one thing she could undo that she did in the past, this will bring the two of you closer together.

5. What is your biggest fear?

– Fears are horrible, but they allow you to really get to know a person. Knowing her biggest fear means you can further protect her and know her better emotionally.

6. What is the one place in the world you wish you lived in?

– A fun question to ask. Most people have places they wish they could live, but they never have the chance to actually live there. By discovering her one special place, you can use this as inspiration for a future vacation, or at least know a little bit more about her aspirations and dreams.

7. Would you rather be loved or have a lot of money?

– Love or money? As a man, you better hope she says love because if she says money, she may be a gold digger.

8. What is the happiest memory from your childhood?

– Memories of the past are always a great way to get to know a person. Everyone has a childhood memory that really makes them smile and happy. By getting to know her memory, you will be able to know exactly what part of her life was the most special.

9. What is the most embarrassing moment of your life?

– Embarrassing moments are something we can look back on and laugh. This is awesome question because it will make her laugh, smile or even cry.

10. What would your dream date be like?

– This has its obvious benefits. If you know her dream date, you can create it for her leading you to be Casanova.

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