Date nights for established couples can feel boring and stale if you talk about the same old topics all the time. Talking about work, the kids, or household repairs should not be the primary focus of nights when you’re trying to reconnect as a couple.

So, here is a list of 100 — yes, 100 — questions that you can choose from to ask each other on your next dinner out.

Use only two to three questions per date night, and really talk about the answers in depth. They range across various domains, including romance, intimacy, family, career, and many others.

The point is to get to know your partner on a deep level all over again. This will increase your feelings of closeness, connection, and romance, which we all know is the whole point of date night!

1.          What is your favorite memory of dating me?

2.          What is your favorite sexual memory of us?

3.          What food reminds you of me?

4.          When was the last time you thought about me in a positive way?

5.          What is your favorite thing that I do for you?

6.          What movie reminds you of us?

7.          Which of your parents are you most like?

8.          Which of our kids are most like you? (or if you aren’t parents yet: Do you ever picture having kids?)

9.          What’s my best physical feature?

10.       What do you like most that I do in bed?

11.       What’s your favorite time of day to be intimate?

12.       Do you like kissing or hugging more?

13.       When did you know you wanted to be monogamous with me?

14.       Do you ever get jealous if you see me talking to other attractive people?

15.       Do you ever dream about me?

16.       What do you think we need to work on the most in our relationship?

17.       If you got sick, do you think I would be there to care for you?

18.       Do you believe that I love you?

19.       When did you know you wanted to kiss me?

20.       What’s your favorite non-sex activity that we do together?