1.           As a child, did you trust both of your parents?

2.          What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?

3.          What is your favorite sexual fantasy?

4.          What is your favorite sexual position?

5.          Do you ever think about me sexually during the day?

6.          What is something I could do to make you trust me even more?

7.          When do you feel the most protected and taken care of?

8.          What can I do to make sure you feel safe with me?

9.          When we hang out with friends, do I make you feel like you’re still my priority?

10.       When we are with my family, do I make you feel like you’re still my priority?

11.        Do you have any deal-breakers, things that would make you seriously reconsider our relationship?

12.       What was the very first thing you thought about me?

13.       When did you first think I was attractive?

14.       How long do you think people should wait before having kids?

15.       What did you learn about marriage from your parents?

16.       What did you learn about physical affection from your parents?

17.        What is your favorite book?

18.       What is your favorite song?

19.       What was your first favorite movie, as a child?

20.      What do you want to do when you retire?